Tuesday, December 30, 2008

做愛的最高境界究竟是什麼?

收到永松師兄以下的電郵:

『做愛的最高境界究竟是什麼?

友人的女友其實很普通,不漂亮也沒有什麼經濟能力,可是他與她非常性和諧,兩人感情很好。

我問他有什麼秘訣,他說:“很簡單,每當我要的時候,不管她在幹什麼,做飯也好,洗澡也好,看電視也好,睡著也好,醒來也好,她都很樂意配合,過程完成得很自然而完美。我認為這才是愛的最高境界,也是性的最高境界。』

第一次閱讀此文,心裡有點忐忑、靦腆。這是不是一個電郵詐騙,永松師兄幹嗎寄我這樣的故事?

過了幾天再看這段文章,感受又不一樣,蠻有意思跟見地啊!

無論幹任何事情的最高境界,都要有「樂意」、「自然」及「完美」這三個基本元素。布施、持戒、忍辱、精進、禪定也不例外。祇要有智慧(踏在菩提道上),所有人、一切事皆可令我們邁向「止於至善的境界(阿耨多羅三藐三菩提)」!

1 comment:

Lung Zhi 隆志 said...

One of ny friends wrote:

hi LZ,

I have a different view on this. I think this guy is extremely self absorbed. He can say that his girlfriend "shows ultimate love". But what about him? all he showed is he is totally selfish. Did he consider her? Why does she always drop everything for him?

Love is mutual, respectful. Yes, there are times, she may do what he wants and vice versa, but why is he wanting sex when/ where she does not want, but she has to do? If she always does it willingly at his every whim, I think deep down there maybe fear, fear of losing him - then this is not love. Or, let time tell. I don't think anyone should only live for another person, suprressing one's own will only to please the other all the time.

Anyways, this is interesting.

By the way, happy new year!!!